Cancer and My Skirt

I failed to mention that on one of my shopping excursions in the city I happened across a skirt.  Not just any skirt but one that is likely designed after some native land.  I put it on over my gym pants anad realized that as my sister said, " I rocked it ".  Yesterday I wore the skirt for about the tenth time since I bought it and once again I felt like a goddess man for ten hours.  I wore it with a pair of boots that are a cross between a fry boot and a cowboy boot, not too much to the left or right of a design that is mod and cool and manly too.  The combination of this, a shirt with black and white pattern and a black fitted jacket put the whole look into prespective.  I enjoyed every moment as I walked from place to place and room to room even taking a nap at my good friends party last night.  I so enjoy tapping into my feminine energy.  I enjoy the feeling that I get when I wear it and other materials that I have wrapped as a skirt in the past.  The key element for me is to add a jacket or a nice T-shirt with it.  It makes all the difference in the world..  Last night one of the men at the part asked me as I sat if I had a skirt on and I said yes to which he looked at me as if not to really care because he was simply affirming it.  It was so great to be around a man who was not affected in the least, likely one who would not wear a skirt but was OK with another guy wearing one.

When we as men get in touch with our feminine energy we get even more in touch with our masculine side too.  I noted that when I wear the skirt every side of me is accented with more of what I am: a man energy and a women energy combined creates a balance in me that I am very attuned with.  I think that might be a word that Marianne Williamson might use.  I am a big fan of hers and I feel like my studies with her have helped me become more attuned to my female side, my soft side and my creative side and my masculine or feminine is not weaker/stronger but rather different aspects of who I am and what we all are I dare to say.  There are many men like me some of which may have a need to wear women's panties and what I have to say about that is that panties don't have to be solely for women.  They can be for men as well.  And so we go forward knowing fully that wearing a skirt or a jacket or a flower are completely balanced with how we feel and what we know we can and will do to raise our hearts up, be in our heart and not in our head.

Now I have moved on to the  biography of a famous photographer who did these beautiful nudes of men and flowers and at one time was such a controversy but today would no stir up anything but love.  He happened to be gay and yet I don't think he or his subjects wore a skirt.  He started taking pictures with a little inexpensive cheap camera and it was his eye and not his camera that created a lovely exposé of art. This man was Robert Mapplethorpe.

Here is my suggestion: if you are a girl put on tie and if you are a boy put on a skirt.  Especially if you have not done this before.  I want to ask each of you to take the gender release challenge no matter who you are.  Wear a flower on your hair or wear some boy undies.  Wear something you believed that was taboo or something that is not aligned with your belief that you were raised with male or female.  Turn the gender role into a new vision and freedom in your life like I did and will continue to do.  My circumstances somewhat dictated wearing more lose clothing and I am so grateful for that now.  Wearing my skirt is a symbol of living in my complete freedom to be Elliott and to be a higher version of me.  Take the challenge.  See you there.
More to come...
elliott collazo: spiritual life coach













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