Rihanna

Rihanna: "I want you to make me feel like I'm the only girl in the world"  Those lyrics are ones that we are all familiar with because they easily translate into our every day life and the way we feel on a daily basis when we are in relationship.  We get confused and believe that one person can actually do this and the fact is they cannot.  No one will validate you as much and as good as you could do it yourself, make you feel like you're the ony boy in the world.  Not even that you are the only vegetable in the world because as we get to know we are not the only ripe apple.

I woke up this morning alone and I am waiting for my friends to come by with my Carmel coffee from you know where.  They are somewhere I just know it.  I also know that if they don't come I can put some caramel in the coffee I already have and make it look and taste great.  I should not depend on them to bring me my joy or my coffee.  As sad as this sounds to some, my husband, sister, brother and lover don't bring me  my coffee and did not this morning.  I made and got it myself.  Who knew I was so lovingly functional.  All while making the bed, eggs and tortillas for lunch.  Who knew?

Somewhere in the back of our heads is this person who decided to believe that someone needed to be somewhere for us when it is completely inaccurate.  People are there of course but not when we want them there nor at our beckon call.  OMG!  Did I say that out loud?  My amiga this morning was pissed about the fact that my partner is not here and waiting on me.  He has been working and will continue to do as he pleases whether she or goddess or any other entity believes he should be with me.

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