3 Best Revenges
As life would have it there are many of us having this nagging feeling of revenge. Someone got us angry enough that we would like to exact some revenge upon them wouldn't we? Let's just be honest we have all been there and wanted it. The only problem is that we seem to be stuck in the revenge and not sufficiently in the joy of getting back at the person. In order to become proficient at revenge we must not resort to the typical "bust the windows out your car" method. In the song by Jazmine Sullivan she adds: "cause you had to learn you can't just play with people's feelings". I highly recommend the legal way of getting even rather than the simple assault or cyber insults. I want to remind everyone of this:
Happiness and success are the best revenge:
Be the happiest person you can by counting your blessings, lifting you big panties up and going out and dancing. Do the happiest things you can possibly do and do them often. Meet new people and be open to any invitation. Being as happy doing what you want to do is the very best way to get back at the person or people who have mistreated you or disrespected you, even the ones who do you the favor of leaving. Can we get a cheer for the ones that leave on their own? Hip Hip Hooray! This is a time to celebrate and go on a vacation. My good friend who is getting divorced is in California basking in the luxury of staying with friends who live in a Palacio estate right off Wilshire Boulevard. Why not? Next she is going to the Hampton's in May for a few days to enjoy the beaches and impeccable food her other friends provide for her when she comes to visit. It is amazing the things she is doing now in the midst of what would otherwise be a miserable ordeal for some yet she chooses to be out and about enjoying each sunny moment while the people back in Ohio are freezing. Happiness, take my word for it, is the very best revenge.
Success is another wonderful and harmless form of revenge. My other friend who just broke it off with her guy is starting a business, pairing up with another woman to create a space for women to take various classes and attend lectures while sipping coffee. She intends the bad situation with her X to provide her with the push she needed to not just move up but to move inward and begin a business of her own, something she always wanted to do. Success speaks for itself and it speaks volumes for you as a person left behind or someone who has not been honored for your gifts and talents. Her guy did not see how talented she was and what exquisite taste she had. He wll soon by finding out. And as they say:LMAO, LOL and OMG is she going to slam his ass down. Nothing says pay back like a successful business and a financially successful life. Nothing.
A Makeover is yet another wonderful way to say "F" You. Getting a new hair color, hiring a trainer and buying a few basic pieces of clothing like a low cut dress works wonders. The next time you pass by your X,YZ (code for punk) you will look ten years younger, your hair will be blond and short and you will be wearing the best fitted low cut black dress with stilettos you have ever owned or thought of owning. Merchandising yourself is for you and remember that looking great is the best revenge you can ever deliver to someone who has hurt you. Strut your stuff, polish your toe nails and put some lipstick on and while you are at it shed about ten pounds. That'll get em! There is a new "little black dress" with your name on it and a party to go to.
Happiness and success are the best revenge:
Be the happiest person you can by counting your blessings, lifting you big panties up and going out and dancing. Do the happiest things you can possibly do and do them often. Meet new people and be open to any invitation. Being as happy doing what you want to do is the very best way to get back at the person or people who have mistreated you or disrespected you, even the ones who do you the favor of leaving. Can we get a cheer for the ones that leave on their own? Hip Hip Hooray! This is a time to celebrate and go on a vacation. My good friend who is getting divorced is in California basking in the luxury of staying with friends who live in a Palacio estate right off Wilshire Boulevard. Why not? Next she is going to the Hampton's in May for a few days to enjoy the beaches and impeccable food her other friends provide for her when she comes to visit. It is amazing the things she is doing now in the midst of what would otherwise be a miserable ordeal for some yet she chooses to be out and about enjoying each sunny moment while the people back in Ohio are freezing. Happiness, take my word for it, is the very best revenge.
Success is another wonderful and harmless form of revenge. My other friend who just broke it off with her guy is starting a business, pairing up with another woman to create a space for women to take various classes and attend lectures while sipping coffee. She intends the bad situation with her X to provide her with the push she needed to not just move up but to move inward and begin a business of her own, something she always wanted to do. Success speaks for itself and it speaks volumes for you as a person left behind or someone who has not been honored for your gifts and talents. Her guy did not see how talented she was and what exquisite taste she had. He wll soon by finding out. And as they say:LMAO, LOL and OMG is she going to slam his ass down. Nothing says pay back like a successful business and a financially successful life. Nothing.
A Makeover is yet another wonderful way to say "F" You. Getting a new hair color, hiring a trainer and buying a few basic pieces of clothing like a low cut dress works wonders. The next time you pass by your X,YZ (code for punk) you will look ten years younger, your hair will be blond and short and you will be wearing the best fitted low cut black dress with stilettos you have ever owned or thought of owning. Merchandising yourself is for you and remember that looking great is the best revenge you can ever deliver to someone who has hurt you. Strut your stuff, polish your toe nails and put some lipstick on and while you are at it shed about ten pounds. That'll get em! There is a new "little black dress" with your name on it and a party to go to.
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