Get That Mojo Back

It has been some time since Angela Bassats movie "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" but not long enough for anyone to forget and to relate back to.  You hear it all the time how a woman got her groove back after a divorce or breakup or loss of a job.  Some of the very things that the movie depicted are the very things that will help you get your groove back.

Here we go:

First and foremost get your money together and take a trip anywhere whether by plane, ,boat, train or car.  Get away from "the scene of the crime" so to speak.  Get out there and just be alone and do your very best to make it fun.  Apple Vacations use to have the most affordable trips and they have incredible offers on excursions that are well worth it.  Go and be a Stella and get your purpose back, even if it means you have to borrow some money.  And by the way don't forget your fabu bathing suit.

Secondly, buy a nice black dress and heels and take yourself out dancing.  Find a neighborhood place that offer ballroom dancing or a place where people are friendly and wear that dress and heels until you scrape the bottoms of the soles.

Get rid of reminders.  If he gave you a blouse get rid of it.  If he gave you some undies really get rid of them.  Karma is in objects from people who have hurt you so run it out of the house as soon as you can.  Pictures should be put away or shredded and the bad memories disposed of ASAP, like yesterday.  These reminders will only hold you back from getting your groove and finding a better situation.  They block the new energy so get the hell rid of it.

The next thing to do is to buy some flowers in celebration of your new life.  They are often times uplifting and white roses represent spirit.  Flowers can be very self-loving to give yourself.  Keep buying them until you get use to it.

Lastly, stop talking and especially giving play to the person who left the scene.  They are not worthy of it and it just creates bad feelings inside of you.  No one wants to hear it an in fact if you keep ranting about him or her everyone will want to run.

There you have it.  Short and Sweet.  Now go forth.
Elliott Maximo Collazo

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