On Being A Grandparent

I use to hear from others that being a grandparent supersedes becoming a parent.  I am not sure if that is true but I can say that for me it has been a beautiful addition to my life.  Just when I thought no one would love me more, another grandchild is born.

Being a dad and a grandfather has been for me the most incredible journey.  Playng house with my own granddaughter is a fun time and a time to bond with her.   Who knew that playing with dolls would be one of the things that I would do for my kids.  Being a grandpa is the best.

I am now sixty one soon to be sixty two and what I am most excited about is having more time with my wonderful kids.  This weekend my daughter came by with the kids for an overnight stay.  By the time she left I was in a little puddle of tears.  Yet I would not change anything even the sad parts when they are ready to go if only to see their eyes again.

I don't want to define this experience of being a grandfather and want to say: Wow

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