How To Get A Date
When our hearts are open then and then alone will we connect with others. This includes a love connection and is not limited to any one kind of human connection. When we are ready then the teacher appears or so it is said and when we are ready that person we long for will appear. Some of us may believe we need to help the process along by signing up for an on line dating service while most of us understand that love just happens to us organically and naturally in due time when the time is right. Still there are some practical ways we can bring love into our lives and here are some of them:
1. Decide that your heart is open. We are ready for love when we decide that we can now open up to it inside the core of our heart. Make a conscious decision that love can happen to you and that you are now open to it. Stand in that conviction and know that you are ready to receive that love from where it comes. If your heart is not open yet then wait for a better time when you are prepared to release the old stuff and bring in the newness of love. Do not doubt yourself but rather be confident in your decision knowing that there are no guarantees and that you will handle love when it arrives.
2. Speak and live the language of love. When you are referring to your self do so in the most loving way possible. It is true that we must love ourselves in order to love anyone else. Start to talk to your spirit in loving words and in your thoughts lavish yourself with love. The more you love your self the more you will be able to love someone else. Live in a place of love doing things for yourself that are kind and generous. Be the first to buy flowers just because you deserve them and these acts of kindness to self make you feel great. Learn to live in a loving manner and to only use loving language at all times. Soon love will arrive.
3. Do what brings you happiness and go where you will be exposed to other people like you. If you love art then visit the museum of art frequently. If you like to dance then go our dancing with friends. Keep focused on the activities that you love and do them often, leaving your home knowing no one is going to come knock on your door and ask you out. Be an active participant of life.
4. Make a list of character traits you would like in the person you want to spend time with. Although looks is a superficial characteristic it can be one criteria as long as not all of the ten are superficial in nature. Humor, compassion, nurturing people are just some of the things you may be looking for both in a partner and anyone who may become a friend. This action will provide clarity and send the message to the universe that you have boundaries, something you should stick with.
Now that you have an idea of how to bring love into your space begin to believe that love will arrive in the time it is right for you. Now that your heart is open start a journey of self-loving that commands that you are loved with the same compassion you feel for your self. You are ready for love. You are ready for love because your heart is open.
Elliott Maximo Collazo
1. Decide that your heart is open. We are ready for love when we decide that we can now open up to it inside the core of our heart. Make a conscious decision that love can happen to you and that you are now open to it. Stand in that conviction and know that you are ready to receive that love from where it comes. If your heart is not open yet then wait for a better time when you are prepared to release the old stuff and bring in the newness of love. Do not doubt yourself but rather be confident in your decision knowing that there are no guarantees and that you will handle love when it arrives.
2. Speak and live the language of love. When you are referring to your self do so in the most loving way possible. It is true that we must love ourselves in order to love anyone else. Start to talk to your spirit in loving words and in your thoughts lavish yourself with love. The more you love your self the more you will be able to love someone else. Live in a place of love doing things for yourself that are kind and generous. Be the first to buy flowers just because you deserve them and these acts of kindness to self make you feel great. Learn to live in a loving manner and to only use loving language at all times. Soon love will arrive.
3. Do what brings you happiness and go where you will be exposed to other people like you. If you love art then visit the museum of art frequently. If you like to dance then go our dancing with friends. Keep focused on the activities that you love and do them often, leaving your home knowing no one is going to come knock on your door and ask you out. Be an active participant of life.
4. Make a list of character traits you would like in the person you want to spend time with. Although looks is a superficial characteristic it can be one criteria as long as not all of the ten are superficial in nature. Humor, compassion, nurturing people are just some of the things you may be looking for both in a partner and anyone who may become a friend. This action will provide clarity and send the message to the universe that you have boundaries, something you should stick with.
Now that you have an idea of how to bring love into your space begin to believe that love will arrive in the time it is right for you. Now that your heart is open start a journey of self-loving that commands that you are loved with the same compassion you feel for your self. You are ready for love. You are ready for love because your heart is open.
Elliott Maximo Collazo
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