How To Make Life A Dream
In the Buddhist belief system we create our own hell and we can create our own heaven, even become like the Buddha. Most of us do not believe in this premise or the ability to manage our own life circumstances, yet we can and many of us who do believe have. It is a well known fact that our subconscious self does not know the difference between reality and fantasy and just feeding the unconscious mind helps us to achieve the very things we desire in our life. All we need to do is feed that subconscious mind what we want to happen. On the other hand we are programmed to believe in only what we can see so most of us will never go from a mediocre life to one that is incredible. Life may not be a dream for many but life can be a dream for those who understand that we are empowered to go from one level in our life to one that is the highest and more like a dream we thought we'd not achieve.
So how do we make our dreams come true? Here is some food for thought:
1. Have a specific plan.
When we have a plan it is more likely that we will get to where we want to be. It is always a good idea to have an idea of where you want to go and what dreams you would like to realize in your life. In your plan make sure that there are steps that lead to the manifestation of your dreams. One of the things many of us do not know about making dreams real is that it takes our addressing every aspect of who we are: spiritual, emotional, creative and physical. If we want to add another aspect it may be financial. A holistic plan is a plan that should include things like: daily meditation/prayer/yoga; weekly counseling/a twelve step program; art or dance, working out and eating healthy and saving money every couple of weeks. In this manner we include every aspect in our being to make the dream happen.
2. Talk to and convince your subconscious mind about what you want.
This is an easy step. When you talk to your subconscious mind tell it those things that you know it needs to achieve your dreams. Do not entertain negative thoughts and when you do simply say no to them. This takes talking to your mind consistently and knowing that what you feed it will be what it will believe. Writing down some affirmative statements and reading them several times a day is helpful. Make those statements ones that speak to the present and that are worded as if you have already arrived and concluded your dream.
3. Believe in yourself and be confident in your abilities.
It is not a secret that the way you look at yourself makes a world of difference. You must believe in your self and become confident in order to make things happen that are beyond the commonplace. Confidence comes with knowing that you can and will be able to achieve what you want in your life of good. Confidence comes with looking at the things you have overcome and accomplished in your life, reminding ourselves that we can and have made our dreams come true. We must also remember that the people we surround ourselves with will influence our dreams and that the ones that are negative will hold us back. For this reason we must also be around others who are confident in their abilities.
4. Be with people who are supportive and only share your dreams with those who love and respect you.
This part of realizing our dreams is clear to me but for many of us it is difficult because the person who squashes our dreams is a person we live with. Perhaps it is time to consider letting go of the person you are with in order to follow your dreams. It very well could be the best thing you have done even though it will be challenging but knowing we are with someone who is sabotaging our desire to become more is truly painful and sets us back. Although for some being with a person who drags us down is completely OK, I believe it is not "OK" and that remaining neutral to one person who claims to love us or is suppose to is impossible. As long as we are with people like this our dreams will be much harder to achieve if not impossible because our energy becomes exhausted in putting out the negative fires.
5. Avoid any action that will set you back, ones that are not aligned with what you want in your life.
Every time you do something that is against what you want to happen in your life you set yourself back. Avoid all the actions that go against your dreams or that negate the spiritual person you are. Look closely at what you do that is not in your highest good and change that immediately. Work every day to live a pure life that you can be completely proud of.
If you don't believe in dreams and you don't believe you can achieve them by your actions then this blog is a waste of your time. Keep living the way you are living now and believe in what you like. I choose to believe that we can manifest our dreams along with many others who have realized their dreams.
Now get up off your butt and dream big.
So how do we make our dreams come true? Here is some food for thought:
1. Have a specific plan.
When we have a plan it is more likely that we will get to where we want to be. It is always a good idea to have an idea of where you want to go and what dreams you would like to realize in your life. In your plan make sure that there are steps that lead to the manifestation of your dreams. One of the things many of us do not know about making dreams real is that it takes our addressing every aspect of who we are: spiritual, emotional, creative and physical. If we want to add another aspect it may be financial. A holistic plan is a plan that should include things like: daily meditation/prayer/yoga; weekly counseling/a twelve step program; art or dance, working out and eating healthy and saving money every couple of weeks. In this manner we include every aspect in our being to make the dream happen.
2. Talk to and convince your subconscious mind about what you want.
This is an easy step. When you talk to your subconscious mind tell it those things that you know it needs to achieve your dreams. Do not entertain negative thoughts and when you do simply say no to them. This takes talking to your mind consistently and knowing that what you feed it will be what it will believe. Writing down some affirmative statements and reading them several times a day is helpful. Make those statements ones that speak to the present and that are worded as if you have already arrived and concluded your dream.
3. Believe in yourself and be confident in your abilities.
It is not a secret that the way you look at yourself makes a world of difference. You must believe in your self and become confident in order to make things happen that are beyond the commonplace. Confidence comes with knowing that you can and will be able to achieve what you want in your life of good. Confidence comes with looking at the things you have overcome and accomplished in your life, reminding ourselves that we can and have made our dreams come true. We must also remember that the people we surround ourselves with will influence our dreams and that the ones that are negative will hold us back. For this reason we must also be around others who are confident in their abilities.
4. Be with people who are supportive and only share your dreams with those who love and respect you.
This part of realizing our dreams is clear to me but for many of us it is difficult because the person who squashes our dreams is a person we live with. Perhaps it is time to consider letting go of the person you are with in order to follow your dreams. It very well could be the best thing you have done even though it will be challenging but knowing we are with someone who is sabotaging our desire to become more is truly painful and sets us back. Although for some being with a person who drags us down is completely OK, I believe it is not "OK" and that remaining neutral to one person who claims to love us or is suppose to is impossible. As long as we are with people like this our dreams will be much harder to achieve if not impossible because our energy becomes exhausted in putting out the negative fires.
5. Avoid any action that will set you back, ones that are not aligned with what you want in your life.
Every time you do something that is against what you want to happen in your life you set yourself back. Avoid all the actions that go against your dreams or that negate the spiritual person you are. Look closely at what you do that is not in your highest good and change that immediately. Work every day to live a pure life that you can be completely proud of.
If you don't believe in dreams and you don't believe you can achieve them by your actions then this blog is a waste of your time. Keep living the way you are living now and believe in what you like. I choose to believe that we can manifest our dreams along with many others who have realized their dreams.
Now get up off your butt and dream big.
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