FOR MEN FROM WOMEN
This share from a good friend is a valuable one. She shared that what she would like from a man is "romance". The first thing I would like to say about this is that one has to be romantic to elicit romance. I am unsure of how she thinks but I would stick to the notion that you cannot get what you don't give.
I don't want this blog/eventual book to be about bashing men. I would like it to be about enlightning men and asking them to become more aware of what women want in relationship and in general, mostly in relationship. Women want men to be romantic. Women want romance because it elicits intimacy and it brings them closer to their partner. They want romance like the kind they experienced when they first met their man and are realistic about the fact that it will not be exactly the same or have the same potency. Nevertheless who can blame them for wanting something so beautiful from a man they love.
Men don't have to be romantic 24/7. I don't think that women think that nor do I think they would want that all the time. After all there needs to be time for everything, like laughing and dancing. Romantic men give their spouses or girlfriends flowers for no reason or they write a poem for the one they love. They look at their partner as someone who is beautiful and worth looking at, gazing at them with love. They hold their hand when they are sitting or walking across the street. It can be the most simple of act like buckling her heels when she is getting dressed or watching a chick flick with her.
Men have a tendency to be romantic until they get their girl. Until they are married to their loved one. They forget about the romance they used when they were trying to win her over. Now that they won her they feel like its done. But women want romance every once in a while though out the relationship. They would like it to continue and that once in a blue moon their man sweep them of their feet by taking them out to a candlelight dinner or making a pie for them. Romance does not have to look the same yet be impactful in the eyes of the woman. A little bit of it goes long way as does other acts of love. Being romantic is an act of love. That is a truly small request of women.
I like the men who say that they cannot do anything that they don't feel. They will say things like: "I feel like a phony". I say feel the phony feeling and fake it. Act like you are romantic and eventually it will become one of your character traits because being loving and romantic is natural for each of us somewhere deep inside.
I don't want this blog/eventual book to be about bashing men. I would like it to be about enlightning men and asking them to become more aware of what women want in relationship and in general, mostly in relationship. Women want men to be romantic. Women want romance because it elicits intimacy and it brings them closer to their partner. They want romance like the kind they experienced when they first met their man and are realistic about the fact that it will not be exactly the same or have the same potency. Nevertheless who can blame them for wanting something so beautiful from a man they love.
Men don't have to be romantic 24/7. I don't think that women think that nor do I think they would want that all the time. After all there needs to be time for everything, like laughing and dancing. Romantic men give their spouses or girlfriends flowers for no reason or they write a poem for the one they love. They look at their partner as someone who is beautiful and worth looking at, gazing at them with love. They hold their hand when they are sitting or walking across the street. It can be the most simple of act like buckling her heels when she is getting dressed or watching a chick flick with her.
Men have a tendency to be romantic until they get their girl. Until they are married to their loved one. They forget about the romance they used when they were trying to win her over. Now that they won her they feel like its done. But women want romance every once in a while though out the relationship. They would like it to continue and that once in a blue moon their man sweep them of their feet by taking them out to a candlelight dinner or making a pie for them. Romance does not have to look the same yet be impactful in the eyes of the woman. A little bit of it goes long way as does other acts of love. Being romantic is an act of love. That is a truly small request of women.
I like the men who say that they cannot do anything that they don't feel. They will say things like: "I feel like a phony". I say feel the phony feeling and fake it. Act like you are romantic and eventually it will become one of your character traits because being loving and romantic is natural for each of us somewhere deep inside.
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