Men's Sense of Seff
A woman is attracted to a man who has a sense of himself. A man who knows what he wants in life and in love. A self-assured man with a good job and who when asked can share who he is and what he's about. Having a sense of who you are is not arrogance. Arrogance is when a man feels he is better than others and thinks himself smarter than anyone else. Good self esteem is very different from being conceited or brass. Self assured means that you can share with a woman where you are going in life, what your aspirations are and where you are headed. A man who can stand up for what he believes in and voice that. A man who is basically sure of what he is looking for in a relationship, job or situation of any kind.
The opposite of this is a man who is insecure, does not know where he is headed in life and becomes arrogant because he has nothing because he is angry with himself and where he is at in his life. Men who pretend to be more than they are and will make up stories about what they do at work to make themselves sound more important and prestigious. Men who lie about what they are doing and where they are really going, sometimes men who are going nowhere fast.
A woman is attracted to a man who is self-assured and self-reliable. A woman admires a man who seeks to do more with his life and who might even be going to college or a trade school to further his education and to grow. Women are turned on by a man who seems to know what he is doing and where he is going and can share information with her to that end. There is no need to make up stories to make yourself look more important. In fact being honest when you are unsure is better than making up some stroy that will eventually be uncovered as a lie.
Men who know who they are have a sense of joy inside of them that shines through. A man who knows who he is tends to be a happier person. He knows what he wants and he will do what it takes, the work, to get it. Men who are self-assured make women feel confortable. Women feel that men who know what they want in life are better relationship candidates. In the end it is about honesty and doing what needs to be done to succeed in not only knowing who you are but that in relationship you know what you want and can ask for it.
The opposite of this is a man who is insecure, does not know where he is headed in life and becomes arrogant because he has nothing because he is angry with himself and where he is at in his life. Men who pretend to be more than they are and will make up stories about what they do at work to make themselves sound more important and prestigious. Men who lie about what they are doing and where they are really going, sometimes men who are going nowhere fast.
A woman is attracted to a man who is self-assured and self-reliable. A woman admires a man who seeks to do more with his life and who might even be going to college or a trade school to further his education and to grow. Women are turned on by a man who seems to know what he is doing and where he is going and can share information with her to that end. There is no need to make up stories to make yourself look more important. In fact being honest when you are unsure is better than making up some stroy that will eventually be uncovered as a lie.
Men who know who they are have a sense of joy inside of them that shines through. A man who knows who he is tends to be a happier person. He knows what he wants and he will do what it takes, the work, to get it. Men who are self-assured make women feel confortable. Women feel that men who know what they want in life are better relationship candidates. In the end it is about honesty and doing what needs to be done to succeed in not only knowing who you are but that in relationship you know what you want and can ask for it.
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