To Feel Special

I have known this woman for many years and when I asked her what she thought women wanted in a man she said: "to be made to feel special".  I loved her response because let's face it everyone wants to feel special and most of us would like to feel like we are special to the man who claims he loves you.  Being made to feel special can be one of the most difficult things to get a man to do.  I think part of it has to do with the fact that they just don't think of it or that they feel like if they do their wife will become conceited or will think herself better than him.  Making a lady feel special is as simple as telling her how beautiful she is in a room full of women or bringing her a gardenia just because you love her.  Sharing special thoughts will go a long way.  Women don't need a lot of kudos to feel like they mean something special to you.  A loving smile and a small hear pendant can make a woman feel special.  A certain look can make a woman feel special.  Holding her hand can make her feel special.  Even giving her an unexpected embrace could give her the message that you she is unlike any other woman, but rather one of a kind.

The ways to demonstrate to a lady how special she is are endless.  Bringing here a cupcake from her favorite place is one.  Buying her a robe that is beautiful and is her favorite color.  Getting her that pearl necklace that she saw and woed about would be nice.  Make it something you can afford of course.  Do not evaluate it as big or small or good enough.  Surprise her.

The next chance that you get to demonstrate how special your woman is grab it.  One act of love will make her feel how special she is to you and it does ntot have to cost a dime.

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