You Intended Bad, God Intended It For Good 2
"You Intended To Harm Me But God Intended It All For Good. "
The other day I was told by a friend that her former partner whom she is divorcing came by and has a habit of coming at any time he pleases. She had allowed it because she felt intimidated by him and he had bullied her for over ten years. The relationship had no boundaries even though she tried to establish them. He would have none of it, parading himself after the separation in her home when he wanted at early hours of the morning. She would be in bed and when she would get up he was either there or his negative energy was left behind. This last time she had enough after asking that he not come to the house on that Friday but rather wait until Monday or another day of the week after she received her pension check. His typical bully response was that he was coming and that he was in fact coming with a woman friend named Michelle. Apparently he wanted to parade this woman in front of her all the while knowing that she suffers from anxiety and depression and has been through cancer treatments. This time she choose to defend her rights and set her boundaries and this made him very angry. In fact she left the home, locked it up and he came over that morning after she was in the city at her appointments with the police, claiming she'd refused him access when in fact it had come to the point where she no longer felt safe and finally took her power back. It was the first time she had finally said NO you cannot step on me and NO you cannot just show up in a home you abandoned almost a year ago. She left the bills they were paying half each of in the mailbox but this time instead of taking all the bills he left her with the gas bill he changed into her name without her approval. As she'd suspected he did not like that she defended her privacy and drew the line hence he left the bill in the mailbox as a passive aggressive move on his part, the way he would when they were married. A passive aggressive man who had gotten his way for almost a year and in the relationship for over ten years needed to find a way to get back at her. In spite of her illness and in spite of her being disabled she looked up at her poster that stated: "You Intended To Harm Me But God Intended It All For Good". She turned it over to Goddess energy and it worked beautifully. She stated that she was no longer going to be disempowered by a bully and contacted her lawyer about setting the boundaries she should have set a long time ago and that she did not due to fear. Her fears were in part founded but in the end she realized that her health and well being is more important than getting someone to take their responsibility for his actions both emotionally and economically. By thinking he could parade a new woman in her face he sealed his own fate because as we know "God does not like ugly".
As we go from one situation in life to another there will be people who will try to harm us. They intend to harm us just like the woman friend of mine in my life. But we have to take our power back and become fearless in our manner and in our faith. We must become humble and ask God to take every dark situation in his hands and handle the person trying to harm us, knowing that this person is also in pain and in a dark place where they feel they must do something to hurt others. I believe in karma and I told her that. He will come to a place where he will know the pain of being severely ill and left alone to cry. He will know that pain of some person placing him aside like a piece of garbage as he did to her when she became ill. Karma s they say is just an energy an it is a "bitch" because it is dark and it is real for those who are clueless about their behavior. God intended it all for good. When someone intends to hurt you just know that God intends it for good and that in the end you will be redeemed. Not one person or a hundred can trash you and not suffer some consequence or energy of darkness. Love conquers it all and love and forgiveness makes us heal.
Many of you know my story and many of you have felt the pain that I and my friend have felt. Don't allow any person to dictate your position with God and your position in life. You don't have to be perfect. You don't have to be completely innocent. You don't even have to be apologetic about what you deserve in life: RESPECT. Disregard the bully and simply walk with spirit knowing that you cannot be harmed anymore. Walk with God because you know God has your back. That no matter what others intend for you it is what God intends that has all the power.
Elliott Collazo Gonzalez Maximo
The other day I was told by a friend that her former partner whom she is divorcing came by and has a habit of coming at any time he pleases. She had allowed it because she felt intimidated by him and he had bullied her for over ten years. The relationship had no boundaries even though she tried to establish them. He would have none of it, parading himself after the separation in her home when he wanted at early hours of the morning. She would be in bed and when she would get up he was either there or his negative energy was left behind. This last time she had enough after asking that he not come to the house on that Friday but rather wait until Monday or another day of the week after she received her pension check. His typical bully response was that he was coming and that he was in fact coming with a woman friend named Michelle. Apparently he wanted to parade this woman in front of her all the while knowing that she suffers from anxiety and depression and has been through cancer treatments. This time she choose to defend her rights and set her boundaries and this made him very angry. In fact she left the home, locked it up and he came over that morning after she was in the city at her appointments with the police, claiming she'd refused him access when in fact it had come to the point where she no longer felt safe and finally took her power back. It was the first time she had finally said NO you cannot step on me and NO you cannot just show up in a home you abandoned almost a year ago. She left the bills they were paying half each of in the mailbox but this time instead of taking all the bills he left her with the gas bill he changed into her name without her approval. As she'd suspected he did not like that she defended her privacy and drew the line hence he left the bill in the mailbox as a passive aggressive move on his part, the way he would when they were married. A passive aggressive man who had gotten his way for almost a year and in the relationship for over ten years needed to find a way to get back at her. In spite of her illness and in spite of her being disabled she looked up at her poster that stated: "You Intended To Harm Me But God Intended It All For Good". She turned it over to Goddess energy and it worked beautifully. She stated that she was no longer going to be disempowered by a bully and contacted her lawyer about setting the boundaries she should have set a long time ago and that she did not due to fear. Her fears were in part founded but in the end she realized that her health and well being is more important than getting someone to take their responsibility for his actions both emotionally and economically. By thinking he could parade a new woman in her face he sealed his own fate because as we know "God does not like ugly".
As we go from one situation in life to another there will be people who will try to harm us. They intend to harm us just like the woman friend of mine in my life. But we have to take our power back and become fearless in our manner and in our faith. We must become humble and ask God to take every dark situation in his hands and handle the person trying to harm us, knowing that this person is also in pain and in a dark place where they feel they must do something to hurt others. I believe in karma and I told her that. He will come to a place where he will know the pain of being severely ill and left alone to cry. He will know that pain of some person placing him aside like a piece of garbage as he did to her when she became ill. Karma s they say is just an energy an it is a "bitch" because it is dark and it is real for those who are clueless about their behavior. God intended it all for good. When someone intends to hurt you just know that God intends it for good and that in the end you will be redeemed. Not one person or a hundred can trash you and not suffer some consequence or energy of darkness. Love conquers it all and love and forgiveness makes us heal.
Many of you know my story and many of you have felt the pain that I and my friend have felt. Don't allow any person to dictate your position with God and your position in life. You don't have to be perfect. You don't have to be completely innocent. You don't even have to be apologetic about what you deserve in life: RESPECT. Disregard the bully and simply walk with spirit knowing that you cannot be harmed anymore. Walk with God because you know God has your back. That no matter what others intend for you it is what God intends that has all the power.
Elliott Collazo Gonzalez Maximo
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