5 Ways to Get A Date

I will cut to the chase and say the five ways to getting a date are:

Think Free Aps: 

Although I haven't used either one my intention is that perhaps someday I may.  In fact I have people who I know who have met folks on these aps that are free.  Cupid is one of them.  Then there is "Grinder which I would not promote unless all you are looking for is sexual favors.  Tinder is another one where I understand one scrolls quickly through pictures and respond with a yes or a no.  Please understand that I don't condone any of the above and am not being paid by anyone but there they are for your investigation and there is no money involved.

Dating Sites: 

Dateing sights are good unless you end up meeting someone who posted a picture of themself from ten years agon and that does happen, however it is a venue that is cheap and may render one or two good prospects every few months.  As they say you have to kiss a lot of frogs.  But I found that it beat haning around in a bar with one drink in my hand since I am not a drinker and hoping the drunk person in the corner would not be the one who approached me.  LOL, LMAO and OMG.  I think that dating sites need to be researched for their validity and their success rate, some will tell you like Harmony and other sites that are more established.  Match.com is another one and then there are ones that specialize in HIV POZ or people with STD's.  There is not reason to be on a dating site unless you are willing to do the work and scroll through people and read thier bios.  They are taking your chanes in the same way that one does in a bar but bettter odds.  You get to pick and ask question and meet in a public forum for safety reasons, no matter who you are: male, female, gay or straight

Be Assertive in Public: 

When you are out and about be assertive and find somehing to strike a conversation about with a person in a store or a when you are at a party.  Be willing to put yourself out there and initiate contact rather than to wait for someone esle to do the work.  Some women believe they don't need to do this and some feel it desperate but I don't agree.  How else will you meet someone?

Manifest It: 

Write a list of ten characteristics you want in someone to befriend and then possibly fall in love with. Be specific, be very specific.  Then close your eyes and imagine him or her in your life.  Picture yourself with this person you described and be assured that this person will cross your path someday soon enough.

Work on You:

Do self work and deal with your issues.  We all have them and the first thing to a good relationship is dealiing with our own issues.  It means that we are willing to see what we are and who we are and what needs love and adjusting.  It means that life has to be honest with us and we about the way we live and the way we treat others.  Work on becoming a better person and you will attract that person that you are.  Don't expect someone well put together to be around you if you are a sloppy person.  Don't expect to be in relationship when you are in the middle of a divorce and are still unhealed.  Don't point your finger at anyone but you for the service of love.  Love yourself into a relationship.  That takes work and you have to be willing to do it.  Now do it!  "Just Do It".